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Around the Web (4/26)

April 26, 2013 — Leave a comment

CHEAP eBook Deal of the Day: Waiting For His Heart: Lessons From a Wife Who Chose to Stay (Joy McClain) – $1.99 (85% off).
FREE eBook Deal of the Day: Be Hopeful (1 Peter): How to Make the Best of Times Out of Your Worst of Times (Warren W. Wiersbe) – (regularly $12.99).
“The story of Noah and the Flood was a valuable illustration of several different New Testament truths.” Clay Gentry examines the New Testament applications of the Old Testament flood.
Andy Sochor considers the four C’s of effective preaching. “These points are not based upon personal experience, human wisdom, or any sort of formal religious training. Rather, these points are taken directly from the word of God.”
Gary Henry challenges us to do what’s right for God’s sake. “Great spiritual progress occurs when we learn to do what is right for reasons higher than those that have moved us in the past.”

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Around the Web (4/24)

April 24, 2013 — Leave a comment

CHEAP eBook Deal of the Day: How to Talk So Your Husband Will Listen and Listen So Your Husband Will Talk (Rick Johnson) – $2.99 (77% off).
The Digital Public Library of America is working to create a large-scale digital public library with scientific and cultural materials available to all. Incredible resource.
“Just as there are special challenges for those who are young in the faith, there are also some for the older.” Gary Henry reflects on the dangers of having been here longer.
“I remember a college professor that used to say, ‘The only exercise some folks get is jumping to conclusions.’ In the past week, in the aftermath of the Boston bombings, lots of folks got plenty of exercise!” Ken Weliever reminds us of the danger in jumping to conclusions.
Rhodes Davis encourages us to quit sawing spiritual sawdust. “Some people have made decisions (or failed to make a decision), then spend long periods of time reliving the decision, digging up the pain and memories, and will not let the past go.”

My Modern Met gives us an idea how the night sky would look if the planets were as close as the moon.

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God Notices the Little Things. Do We?

April 18, 2013 — Leave a comment

And [Jesus] sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the offering box. Many rich people put in large sums. And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which make a penny. And he called his disciples to him and said to them, “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.” (Mark 12:41-44)

God notices and appreciates the little things. Little things are powerful. They can accumulate to have positive and negative impacts on our homes.

Little things affect our marriages. Most husband-wife relationships that have grown to be strained are not so because of one-time, massive, easily-identifiable “meteors” that suddenly and unexplainably fell out of the marital sky. Most of the significant problems we experience in our marriages can be attributed to the multiplication of the little things—a selfish choice here, rude disregard there. Attitudes produce actions. Actions evolve into habits. Habits undeniably impact life at home. Given enough time, the little things can snowball and cause serious damage at the very foundation of a marriage.

Children who are not taught to appreciate and participate in the little things are set by their parents on a trajectory of ingratitude and self-centeredness. Mom is not the maid. Dad is not the ATM. Children are not entitled to everything their hearts desire, nor should they be treated as immune to sacrifice or free from accountability. When the little things are taken for granted, erosion of the heart is experienced that can eventually lead to devastating consequences.

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The Weight of Anxiety

April 4, 2013 — Leave a comment

Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad. (Prov 12:25)

The weight of anxiety can affect life at home. This weight comes to settle on big and little shoulders for a variety of reasons: an upcoming test at school, problems on the playground, a job-performance review, an impending business trip, an unpleasant confrontation, sickness, financial strain—these weights are real and carrying them can be difficult.

When our hearts are weighed down, it’s easy to “take it out” on the people we love the most. Throughout the day, at school or at work, we may do a pretty good job of balancing the weight and keeping our spirits under control… until we get home. Then, we find it all too easy to be grumpy, mean, and hurtful with our families.

Anxiety in a man’s heart may weigh him down, but “a good work makes him glad.”

Dads: it was a long day. What about deliberately reflecting on “a good word” before you open the front door?
Moms: it was a long day. What about intentionally taking a moment to pray for patience before the chaos of the evening has the opportunity to hit critical mass?
Teenagers: it was a long day. What about carefully checking your attitude before your interaction with Mom and Dad takes a negative turn?
Kids: it was a long day. What about looking for little ways you could help out and pick up after yourself before things get crazy around the house?

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Protect Your Marriage by Establishing Boundaries

January 2, 2013 — Leave a comment

I was asked to contribute this article for the January 2013 (“Stopping Divorce”) issue of Pressing On, an e-magazine for growing Christians. If you haven’t already subscribed, you’re missing out on some great monthly content.

“The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it” (Prov 22:3).

You never get used to it. The tears. The excuses. The perplexed looks that reflect shattered hearts.

I’ve sat and wept and prayed with far too many broken men and crushed women who wish they had established and respected safeguards in the past to protect their marriages that are disintegrating in the present. I’ve never sat or wept or prayed with a faithful spouse or fulfilled couple who regretted having established and respected marital boundaries. Guardrails don’t inhibit happiness; they lead to and protect happiness.

The prudent recognize the dangerous threats of the modern world to their marriages and hide themselves behind boundaries of wisdom and mutual respect.

The simple scoff. “It’ll never happen to me.” “No one’s gonna tell me what to do.” “If my wife doesn’t like it, she can get over it.” “That part of my life is none of my husband’s business.” The simple scoff and go on, but they and their marriages eventually suffer for it.

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Around the Web (10/25)

October 25, 2012 — Leave a comment

Dan Bouchelle encourages Christians to reflect, “So, if you have a faithful preacher who is there week after week, doing his best to serve the Word and serve the church, you might want to think twice before you do your no-holds-barred evaluation. You might be shocked to learn what his week has been like. I doubt you want his job.”
Dene Ward uses the example of Mrs. Job to pose this question: “If Satan were going to test my spouse, would he take me, or leave me?”
Ethan Longhenry introduces Revelation and encourages us to remember: “Revelation, therefore, uses all sorts of images to describe conditions which the early Christians would face.”
Gary Henry reflects on schedule books and sacrifice. “So the next time you have to make a choice in regard to two events that are trying to occupy the same slot in your schedule book, ask yourself what is TRULY the most important to you.”
Andy Sochor explores the faith to move mountains. “A faith that is strong enough to move mountains and is able to make all things possible is a powerful thought. But many miss the point of this passage.”
Astronomers have cataloged 84 million stars at the heart of the Milky Way galaxy using an enormous cosmic photo snapped by a telescope in Chile, a view that is billed as the largest survey ever of the stars in our galaxy’s core.

Around the Web (9/26)

September 26, 2012 — Leave a comment

Around the Web

Gary Henry offers Ten Tips for Better Bible Study.

Around the Web (9/20)

September 20, 2012 — Leave a comment

Around the Web

Dr. Simon Gathercole, an expert on apocryphal gospels and Senior Lecturer in New Testament in the University of Cambridge, weighs in on the “Did Jesus have a wife?” hubbub.

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Around the Web (5/25)

May 25, 2012 — Leave a comment

“Ancient” Bethlehem seal unearthed in Jerusalem - Israeli archaeologists have discovered what they claim to be a 2,700-year-old seal that bears the inscription “Bethlehem.” Shmuel Achituv, an expert in ancient scripts at Israel’s Ben-Gurion University, said the discovery was the oldest reference to Bethlehem ever found outside of the Bible. Apart from the seal, the other mentions of Bethlehem, Mr Achituv said, “are only in the Bible.”
The Good Book Blog provides a fantastic timeline of the rulers of ancient Israel and Judah from 1 and 2 Kings.
Don’t touch that email unless you’re going to do something with it. Sound advice from the Time Management Ninja.
Mike Wilson recently released Your First Steps, a great resource to help new Christians begin their walk with Jesus. Available in a variety of formats from Amazon and FastPencil.
Are you still pursuing the woman who said “I do” at the altar? Date Your Wife looks to be an interesting challenge to husbands who won their wives and are now taking them for granted. For what it’s worth, Date Your Wife can be preordered today for $5.56 (51% off).

A Baby Won't Fix It

March 26, 2012 — Leave a comment

Some wise words for couples from Justin Davis:

In 1998, Trisha and I moved from Saint Charles, Illinois to Kokomo, Indiana. This move–in my mind–would be the move that made everything better. Our son Micah was two years old, Trisha was pregnant with Elijah, and our marriage of three years wasn’t going how either of us had envisioned. This move was going to be special because we were moving from an $800 per month, 800 sq. ft apartment to a $525 per month, 1,200 sq. ft house. We were buying our first house!

In my mind, this would solve everything. Our house had a yard, neighbors, privacy, sidewalks and space. We were going to own it. I was convinced this house would fix Trish. This house would solve our problems. This house would reduce the frequency of our arguments. This house would cover all the things we disagreed about.

I soon came to realize that our first house didn’t fix it.

The truth is, we can never expect an external thing to fix internal problems. That just does’t happen.

So often, when people are having marriage problems, they believe “if we just had ______” or “we just accomplished ______” or “we just got ______” or “we just moved ______,” then the problems in our relationship would go away. Marriage will be better when:

I get that promotion
We get out of debt
We move to a bigger house
I finish my degree
We make more money
We move closer to “home”
We have a baby

Babies are great. But a baby won’t fix it. A baby won’t fix the distance you feel. A baby won’t restore trust when trust has been broken. A baby won’t help you be more honest with each other. A baby won’t bring you closer spiritually. A baby won’t help you forgive. A baby won’t cause him to pursue you more. A baby won’t fix it.

We can’t count on something external—whatever that something is—to fix an internal problem.

There are two things that will fix what’s wrong with your marriage:

Pursuing God
Pursuing your spouse

When you do those two things, you allow what’s broken in your heart, your relationship, your soul to begin the process of healing. You begin to move closer to God and closer to your spouse, and in that process, you begin to address the issues you have rather than counting on a new house or job to cover those issues up.

A baby won’t fix it. But your pursuit of God and your spouse can.

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