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Around the Web (5/8)

May 8, 2013 — Leave a comment

CHEAP eBook Deals of the Day: 5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Daughter (Vicki Courtney) – $4.99 (67% off); 5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Son (Vicki Courtney) – $4.74 (68% off); Beyond Bath Time: Embracing Motherhood as a Sacred Role (Erin Davis) – $1.99 (82% off).
Jennifer Gerhardt writes, “We’ve all heard the Iraneas quote, ‘The glory of God is a person fully alive.’ And that’s what I thought of when Justin shared this dusty memory, pulled from some far corner of his mind. I was reminded of how God is glorified when we sell out. And of how awkward and uncomfortable everything gets when we don’t.”
“When Jesus and the New Testament writers wanted to illustrate a point or establish a truth, they would often turn to a story found within the pages of the Old Testament.” With that in mind, Clay Gentry turns our attention to Cain and Abel from a New Testament point-of-view.
Rhodes Davis suggests 5 ways to begin the day with spiritual wisdom.
The Florida College Annual Lectures e-compilation from Logos is about to ship. Order within the next day or two to get 32% off.

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Around the Web (4/27)

April 27, 2013 — Leave a comment

CHEAP eBook Deal of the Day: Closing the Window: Steps to Living Porn Free (Tim Chester) – $2.99 (80% off).
Doy Moyer writes, “Repentance and confession are fundamental to the Christian’s relationship to God. These are not merely one time ‘steps’ in a plan of salvation, but are necessary components in an ongoing fellowship in which God’s grace grants forgiveness and hope.”
Dene Ward asserts, “It’s time we older Christians stopped endorsing fairy tales. It’s time we told it like it is. Life can be hard and it doesn’t necessarily mean you are at fault. Even when you are at fault, it doesn’t mean you are worse than anyone else, no matter what image others try to present.”
The Scriptures have a good deal to say about the danger of idolatry. “But,” Gary Henry asks, “is it really the practical problem today that it was in ancient times?”
Clay Gentry suggests, “If those of old had not received their commendation based on their faith (Heb 11:2), then Hebrews 11 would have read very differently. Rather than being the Hall-of-Fame of Faith, it would be the Hall-of-Shame of the Faithless.”

Around the Web (4/23)

April 23, 2013 — Leave a comment

CHEAP eBook Deal of the Day: Journey to Joy: The Psalms of Ascent (Josh Moody) – $0.99 (93% off).
Ken Weliever issues a simple challenge: be kind. “In a world that is often insensitive, cold and calloused, Christians are called upon to be different. As we interact with our brethren, friends and family, let’s learn to be nice. Be considerate. Be caring. Be loving. Be patient. Be kind.”
Andy Sochor provides a great survey of the wise warnings in Proverbs about alcohol.
Gary Henry encourages us not to mistake the means for the end. “We can’t grow strong without using the means God has provided to that end, but we mustn’t forget what the end is. The ‘trees’ are sometimes so interesting, we lose sight of the ‘forest.’ We can become so caught up in the activities of spiritual growth that we begin enjoying them alone, just for their own sake. As strange as it may seem, we can lose touch with God while busying ourselves with the deeds of the devotional life.”
Rickie Jenkins addresses parents who are concerned about training their children in the best way possible. “We search for fundamental keys that will help us to be successful. May I suggest a few of those fundamental keys are found in the Ten Commandments, especially the command to ‘honor thy father and mother’ (Ex. 20:12)?”

The Hubble Space Telescope has been in orbit for 23 years and, to celebrate this milestone, the space telescope revisited the famous Horsehead Nebula in the constellation of Orion.

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God Notices the Little Things. Do We?

April 18, 2013 — Leave a comment

And [Jesus] sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the offering box. Many rich people put in large sums. And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which make a penny. And he called his disciples to him and said to them, “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.” (Mark 12:41-44)

God notices and appreciates the little things. Little things are powerful. They can accumulate to have positive and negative impacts on our homes.

Little things affect our marriages. Most husband-wife relationships that have grown to be strained are not so because of one-time, massive, easily-identifiable “meteors” that suddenly and unexplainably fell out of the marital sky. Most of the significant problems we experience in our marriages can be attributed to the multiplication of the little things—a selfish choice here, rude disregard there. Attitudes produce actions. Actions evolve into habits. Habits undeniably impact life at home. Given enough time, the little things can snowball and cause serious damage at the very foundation of a marriage.

Children who are not taught to appreciate and participate in the little things are set by their parents on a trajectory of ingratitude and self-centeredness. Mom is not the maid. Dad is not the ATM. Children are not entitled to everything their hearts desire, nor should they be treated as immune to sacrifice or free from accountability. When the little things are taken for granted, erosion of the heart is experienced that can eventually lead to devastating consequences.

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The Great Commandments Apply at Home

April 9, 2013 — Leave a comment

“Which commandment is the most important of all?” Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:28-31)

If no commandment is greater than these, no environment needs them more than our homes. When God first commanded the children of Israel to love him with all their heart, soul, and might, he directly attached his expectations to everyday life at home.

“These words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” (Deut 6:6-9)

By God’s design, home is “where the children are led to know Christ in his beauty who loves them so.” Home, as God envisioned, is “where the altar fires burn and glow” (B. B. McKinney). Home may be “where the heart is,” but nothing matters more in Christian homes than the heart of God.

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The Weight of Anxiety

April 4, 2013 — Leave a comment

Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad. (Prov 12:25)

The weight of anxiety can affect life at home. This weight comes to settle on big and little shoulders for a variety of reasons: an upcoming test at school, problems on the playground, a job-performance review, an impending business trip, an unpleasant confrontation, sickness, financial strain—these weights are real and carrying them can be difficult.

When our hearts are weighed down, it’s easy to “take it out” on the people we love the most. Throughout the day, at school or at work, we may do a pretty good job of balancing the weight and keeping our spirits under control… until we get home. Then, we find it all too easy to be grumpy, mean, and hurtful with our families.

Anxiety in a man’s heart may weigh him down, but “a good work makes him glad.”

Dads: it was a long day. What about deliberately reflecting on “a good word” before you open the front door?
Moms: it was a long day. What about intentionally taking a moment to pray for patience before the chaos of the evening has the opportunity to hit critical mass?
Teenagers: it was a long day. What about carefully checking your attitude before your interaction with Mom and Dad takes a negative turn?
Kids: it was a long day. What about looking for little ways you could help out and pick up after yourself before things get crazy around the house?

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Around the Web (3/22)

March 22, 2013 — Leave a comment

Around the Web

CHEAP eBook Deal of the Day: 365 Ways to Say “I Love You” to Your Kids (Jay Payleitner – $0.99 – 86% off).
Gary Henry reflects on “those who open their hearts and feel the pain this world can inflict, still maintaining a gracious respect and gratitude toward God — those are the folks with an admirable strength!” The strong heart is not callous.
Dene Ward acknowledges that raising children can be exhausting, frustrating, and completely overwhelming. “That’s what happens when you take on the care of a completely helpless human being. That’s what you signed on for when you decided to have a child. That’s the commitment you made when you decided to enjoy the act that might produce that child.” She goes on to provide some much needed perspective.
Craig Bradley reminds us, “Our treatment of the elderly is a reflection upon us and upon our society. The way we treat the aged, the care we give them, says something about us.”
Amazon launches “Send to Kindle” button for websites. You can see it in action in the SHARE THIS row of options at the end of this post.

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Could Your Home Use a Good Spring Cleaning?

March 20, 2013 — Leave a comment

The home was God’s idea, but life at home isn’t always perfect. Or easy. Or pleasant. Or like we expected it to be.

On this first day of Spring, might the Bible provide some help? Many of us know it’s time for a good “Spring cleaning” around our physical houses. But what about our homes? Our marriages? Our parent-child relationships? Our individual lives of integrity?

Here’s a Spring Cleaning Checklist to get us thinking about the issues that matter most: