Archives For integrity

The home was God’s idea, but life at home isn’t always perfect. Or easy. Or pleasant. Or like we expected it to be.

On this first day of Spring, might the Bible provide some help? Many of us know it’s time for a good “Spring cleaning” around our physical houses. But what about our homes? Our marriages? Our parent-child relationships? Our individual lives of integrity?

Here’s a Spring Cleaning Checklist to get us thinking about the issues that matter most:

  • What sort of clutter has built up? (Luke 8:14)
  • Is your garbage disposal working? (James 1:21)
  • Are your mirrors clean? (James 1:22-25)
  • Are you keeping an eye on your filter? (Phil 4:8)
  • Is your alarm system functional? (Prov 22:3)
  • What needs to be thrown away for good? (Gal 5:19-21)
  • How’s the laundry coming? (Col 3:5-14)
  • Are you getting the fresh air you need? (1 Cor 13:4-8)
  • Have all the necessary locks been installed? (Eph 5:3-4)
  • Are things as secure as they need to be? (Prov 4:23)
  • How’s the foundation? (Matt 7:24-27)
Continue Reading...

Around the Web

Around the Web (11/5)

November 5, 2012 — Leave a comment

Around the Web

  • Clay Gentry explores six Biblical lessons we need to learn from hitting rock bottom.
  • Dene Ward warns against defining hope like a couple of middle school girls who “hope” a certain cute boy will look their way, or a teacher will change the due date on a big project, or a “mean” girl won’t spread some sort of embarrassing news about them. “Please, please, please, maybe, maybe, maybe.” That is not the Bible definition of hope.
  • Justin Taylor invokes Joseph Williams’ Style to remind us that obscure writing is not evidence of profound thinking. Incidentally, neither is obscure preaching.
  • Ferrell Jenkins is up to Acts 21 in his photo tour of the Book of Acts.
  • Gary Henry asks, “Do you do your best even in private? Or are you like most people: in situations where no one is looking, you don’t always try as hard?” Speaking of Gary, he’s presenting a special series of lessons at Laurel Canyon entitled “Let Your Light Shine” tonight through Wednesday. We’d love to have you join us!

 

FallMeeting

 

Continue Reading...

From Dawn Reffett, mother of a teenage son:

It caught my eye. Boot Camp: Equipping Men with Integrity for Spiritual Warfare. The book’s cover, showing the feet of soldiers lined up at attention, suggested a tough approach to Christian living—a lifestyle opposite of today’s culture.  I hoped this could be the guidebook I needed for my teenage son.  I needed a book to lead him in a closer relationship with God.  More specifically, I needed a book to develop his character by molding his life around God.  I wanted him to “be all he could be” for Christ instead of letting this world have its way with him.  In the store, I picked up the book and looked at the Table of Contents.  The book’s chapters addressed specific areas to improve a man’s life, put in the context of the boot camp experience. Looked promising. I bought it, and I’m glad I did.

The book exceeded my expectations.  It addressed the importance of integrity in a Christian man’s life. The writing style is informal and easy to read. There are short fictional stories and Bible stories incorporated in the chapters, along with Bible verses to help in understanding and enforcing the area addressed.  The book is not just a great read for men or boys.  I (Mom) have personally enjoyed it and have been inspired to strive toward that godly image God intends for me. My favorite chapters in the book are The Lord’s Infirmary: A Time to Heal and Jealousy: Playing into the Enemy’s Hands by Turning on Each Other. This book is the first in the IMAGE series where “I” standing for integrity. I’m looking forward to reading the next in the series by this author, Jason Hardin, who coincidentally shares central Ohio as home.

Click here for more Boot Camp information.

Boot Camp: Equipping Men with Integrity for Spiritual Warfare is now available for the Kindle and the Nook.

Boot Camp is the first volume in the IMAGE series of books for men. It serves as a Basic Training manual in the spiritual war for honor, integrity, and a God-glorifying life.

Men love the epic tales of warriors who have defied the odds, proven to be larger-than-life at the decisive moment, and led others in efforts that have shaped the course of history. We quite naturally imagine being “that kind” of man. But there is a greater story. There is a grander adventure. There is a divine chronicle of eternal magnitude in which you—in one way or another—will play your own unique part. The means of shaping our lives into harmony with the glory of our Creator has been furnished in Jesus the Christ. And he invites you to join his ranks.

For more information, visit the Boot Camp page, the Kindle page, or the Nook page.

To domesticate is to convert, to tame, or adapt a thing to a new environment. For centuries, humans have worked to domesticate animals, integrating outdoor creatures to indoor life.

As masters, we typically enjoy “showing off” our domesticated creatures. Our dogs “play dead” on command. Our birds repeat funny phrases. Our rodents exercise. Some have even taught their cats to use toilets.

We marvel at the wild acting tame, the savage seeming subdued, and the harmful appearing to be harnessed.

But every once in a while we get a glimpse—a reminder that what we thought had been suppressed can still rear a rebellious head. Animals have certain base instincts that cannot be forever eliminated. When past training collides with compulsive desires in a beast, compulsive desire often comes out on top. And what we thought was our friend can turn out to be harmful and deadly.

The same thing applies to sin. Whomever you are, you can’t domesticate sin. Let your guard down and it will rear its ugly head (1 Cor 10:12). Interact with iniquity in pride and it will strike (Rom 11:20). Taunt ungodliness as if you are the master and it will bite (Prov 16:18). Flirt with unbridled lust like a fool and it will eventually cost you your life (Prov 7:23).

In 1 Corinthians 9:27 the apostle Paul wrote, “But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.” Like Paul, your body must be disciplined. Evil lies close at hand (Rom 7:21). Your fleshly instincts must be kept under control. When past training collides with compulsive desire, you are not a beast. Your flesh is not your god (Phil 3:19). Christ-shaped character can and must come out on top.

All of which means we must be so very careful what we expose ourselves to today. Paul was honest with himself, with us, and with God.

I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. (Rom 7:22-23)

Let’s be honest like that today. What good can possibly come from exposing our minds to the putrid scent of pornography? Why should we allow the bait of gossip to be dangled in front of our eyes? What gain will there be in consuming the raw filthiness of crude joking? Why bring the maggots of ungodliness into our homes and act as if they will not multiply?

Let’s acknowledge that sowing to the flesh will only produce corruption (Gal 6:8). Let’s guard our hearts, refusing to think about, sniff, or nibble at the rotting raw meat of sin (James 1:14-15).  Let’s set our minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth (Col 3:2).

We can’t domesticate sin. Let’s not act today as if we have or can.

American Idol

In Jeremiah 14:22, God’s spokesman poses this question to expose the folly of idolatry:

Are there any among the false gods of the nations that can bring rain?

Centuries later, idolatry continues to thrive, which means that the prophet’s question should continue to be asked. In our modern context, it might sound like this:

  • Is there any amount of money that can bring lasting happiness?
  • Is there any amount of television programming that can provide real fulfillment?
  • Is there any video game console that can supply a true sense of accomplishment?
  • Is there any sporting event that can forever satisfy?
  • Is there any advancement at work that will justify the toll of an absent father?
  • Is there any level of success that will fill the void of arrogant self-centeredness?
  • Is there any sexual experience that is worth the cost of your marriage?
  • Is there any website that is equivalent in worth to decades of trust?
  • Is there any bargain or edge that is worth the cost of your integrity?
  • Is there any sinful indulgence that can justify alienation from God?
  • Is there anything in this world that can equal the value of your soul?

There are God-shaped holes in your heart with God-shaped voids that only God can fill (Eccl 3:11). Try to satisfy them with the trinkets of the world this week, and you might as well try to capture the wind (Eccl 1:2). Our idols cannot deliver what they promise any more than the false gods of Jeremiah’s day could bring rain.

Are you not he, O LORD our God? We set our hope on you, for you do all these things. (Jer 14:22)

____Run to and fro through the streets of Jerusalem,
_________look and take note!
____Search her squares to see
_________if you can find a man,
____one who does justice
_________and seeks truth,
_________that I may pardon her.
____Though they say, “As the LORD lives,”
_________yet they swear falsely.
____O LORD, do not your eyes look for truth?
_____________________________(Jeremiah 5:1-3)

What if these ancient words were rephrased to match our modern context?

____Search the houses and apartments of America!
_________Scan the Facebook statuses and Twitter feeds!
____Survey the schools and universities!
_________Scrutinize the offices and cubicles!

____Seek for men who will do the right thing regardless of the circumstances;
_________Search for women who will speak the truth in all situations.
____Seek out young people who will stand on principle in the face of peer pressure;
_________Search for the mature who will cling to righteousness in the darkest hour.

“The eyes of the LORD run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless toward him” (2 Chron 16:9).  In his grace and mercy, he is willing to pardon those who who are willing to forsake the pathways of rebellion and deceit. Even today, he is on the lookout for men and women of integrity who will speak and act on and live the truth every day, everywhere.

As his gaze passes over you, what does he see?

I recently ran across a similar list of questions that Francis Chan asks himself before every opportunity to teach or preach.  Below is my (adapted) list of seven questions.

  1. Am I more concerned about what people will think of my message or what God thinks? (teach with fear, Acts 5:29)
  2. Do I genuinely care for these people? (teach with love, 1 Thes 2:7-8)
  3. Am I faithfully presenting this section of Scripture? (teach with accuracy, 2 Tim 4:2)
  4. Am I depending on the Holy Spirit’s power or my own cleverness? (teach with boldness, Heb 4:12)
  5. Have I applied this message to my own life? (teach with integrity, Phil 3:12-14)
  6. Am I aiming to draw attention to myself or to God? (teach with humility, 1 Cor 3:5-7)
  7. Do these people need this message? (teach with urgency, Acts 20:18-21)

Can you think of other questions that ought to be asked?

Excerpted from Chapter 13 of Boot Camp: Equipping Men with Integrity for Spiritual Warfare:

The soldier’s breastplate protects the upper half of his body, from the neck to the thighs.   In the times of Roman rule, breastplates were usually made of rings or plates of brass.   Like the scales of a fish, the brass pieces were fastened together so that the armor was flexible in battle, while still guarding the soldier’s vital organs from swords, spears, and arrows.

It’s no mistake that the Spirit’s instruction to “fasten on the belt of truth” is followed by the encouragement to “put on the breastplate of righteousness” (Eph 6.14).   In the word of his truth, our Creator has defined that which is right and that which is wrong.   He has established the boundaries of what is acceptable and unacceptable for his creation.   He has provided wisdom so that his image-bearers might “walk in the way of the good and keep the path of the righteous” (Prov 2.20).   Those paths have been traveled for thousands of years by men of integrity, moral uprightness, holiness, and character.   The way of the good is the way of virtue—in quality and in practice.

Remember that our Creator desires to stamp his own image deep on our hearts.   His intention is that godliness and integrity would become a natural part of who we are.   When we, in humility, allow God to define the standard by which every thing will be measured as “right,” we arm ourselves with holy vests that cannot be penetrated by even the strongest of the Enemy’s weapons.   Once again, Satan cannot rip the breastplate of righteousness from you, but you can decide to rebelliously lay it down and willfully walk into the camp of darkness.

To put on the breastplate of righteousness, therefore, is to dedicate yourself to a life of self-control.   Like the soldier who accepts the weight and constraints of bulky armor, the disciple of Christ consents to live within the boundaries of self-denial and submission to God’s standard of righteousness.   The soldiers of this world do so to protect themselves from the outward dangers of battle.   The Christian does so protect himself from himself.

Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, to make you obey its passions.   Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness. (Rom 6.12-13)

Little children, let no one deceive you.   Whoever practices righteousness is righteous, as he is righteous.   Whoever makes a practice of sinning is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning.   The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the works of the devil.   No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God’s seed abides in him, and he cannot keep on sinning because he has been born of God.   By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God. (1 John 3.7-10)

Just as wicked King Ahab was killed by an arrow that struck him “between the scale armor and the breastplate” (1 Kings 22.34), a lack of honesty and integrity leaves soldiers of Christ critically exposed to the assaults of Satan.   There is no earthly substitute for humble obedience in the sight of God.   He expects practical, daily righteousness on the part of the redeemed.   He calls us to live in harmony with what is right in his sight.   Each image-bearer is summoned to mold his own beliefs, opinions, attitudes, thoughts, and behaviors into a living imitation of the Creator’s expectations.

If we are to successfully survive the attacks of the wicked one, we must recognize and address the breaches of personal weakness and compromise.   We don’t stand a chance against the cosmic powers of darkness while selfishly clinging to the lusts of the flesh.   As long as sin reigns in our mortal bodies, there are gaps in our panoply.   We may describe ourselves as fully-devoted followers, but we have been deceived.   We are continuing to tolerate sin in our lives and the devil has us right where he wants us.

Remember the call!   It is time to “cast off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light.”   Leave no unguarded place!   Recognize and address the weaknesses of your character.   “Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (1 Pet 5.5).   Seek our the strength which only he can supply.   Reform your standards of living so that they reflect his.   And having done all, washed in the atoning blood of the Lamb and clothed in accordance with his righteousness, you can resist the advances of Satan, standing firm in your faith.

(Boot Camp: Equipping Men with Integrity for Spiritual Warfare, pg. 220-222)

Other posts in this series on the armor of God: