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January 3, 2013 — Leave a comment

Around the Web

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An important warning and encouragement from Trey Morgan:

Keeping things or hiding things from your spouse is a sign of problems in a marriage. A healthy marriage is one that is built on total openness and honesty. When it comes to secrets in marriage, there should be none.

Here’s a test with some tough questions:

  • Do you hide purchases of things you bought from your spouse? (… you shouldn’t)
  • Do you allow your spouse to read your email messages? (… you should if they asked to)
  • Do you share your passwords to email addresses or Facebook accounts with your spouse? (… you should)
  • Would you allow your spouse to read your text messages on your cell phone if she asked? (… you should)
  • Do you hide friendships with people of the opposite sex from your spouse? (… you shouldn’t)
  • Do you immediately delete all messages received via email, text and Facebook? (… if so, why?)

I know that for some, those are really tough questions. You may not like to hear this, but if you are constantly hiding things from your spouse, my first questions for you would be, “Why?” and “What are you hiding?” When I counsel couples and one spouse is hiding things (generally text messages) from the other spouse, it sends off all kinds of red flags in my head.

Does my wife read every email, text message or Facebook message I get? No, but she’s welcome to read them anytime she wants. I hide nothing from her, and I find accountability in the fact that she knows every password to my email and Facebook accounts.

Most affairs begin as a friendship that develops into something more than it was intended to be. One of the first signs that your friendship has become more than a friendship is when you begin to hide things about that relationship from your spouse. When it comes to friendships with the opposite sex, abide by these three rules:

  • Always keep it just a friendship.
  • Make sure your spouse has no problems or issues with it.
  • Never keep a secret or hide anything about this friendship from your spouse.

A healthy marriage is a relationship where spouses don’t hide things from one another. Do you want a great marriage? Be honest with your spouse.

Some absolutely mind-boggling stats about the state of the Internet in 2010 via Pingdom.  The numbers reminded me of this quote from John Piper: “One of the great uses of Twitter and Facebook will be to prove at the Last Day that prayerlessness was not from lack of time.”

Email

  • 107 trillion — The number of emails sent on the Internet in 2010.
  • 294 billion — Average number of email messages per day.
  • 1.88 billion — The number of email users worldwide.
  • 480 million — New email users since the year before.
  • 89.1% — The share of emails that were spam.
  • 262 billion — The number of spam emails per day (assuming 89% are spam).
  • 2.9 billion — The number of email accounts worldwide.
  • 25% — Share of email accounts that are corporate.

Websites

  • 255 million — The number of websites as of December 2010.
  • 21.4 million — Added websites in 2010.

    Internet users

    • 1.97 billion — Internet users worldwide (June 2010).
    • 14% — Increase in Internet users since the previous year.
    • 825.1 million — Internet users in Asia.
    • 475.1 million — Internet users in Europe.
    • 266.2 million — Internet users in North America.
    • 204.7 million — Internet users in Latin America / Caribbean.
    • 110.9 million — Internet users in Africa.
    • 63.2 million — Internet users in the Middle East.
    • 21.3 million — Internet users in Oceania / Australia.

    Social media

    • 152 million — The number of blogs on the Internet (as tracked by BlogPulse).
    • 25 billion — Number of sent tweets on Twitter in 2010
    • 100 million — New accounts added on Twitter in 2010
    • 175 million — People on Twitter as of September 2010
    • 7.7 million — People following @ladygaga (Lady Gaga, Twitter’s most followed user).
    • 600 million — People on Facebook at the end of 2010.
    • 250 million — New people on Facebook in 2010.
    • 30 billion — Pieces of content (links, notes, photos) shared on Facebook per month.
    • 70% — Share of Facebook’s user base located outside the United States.
    • 20 million — The number of Facebook apps installed each day.

    Videos

    • 2 billion — The number of videos watched per day on YouTube.
    • 35 — Hours of video uploaded to YouTube every minute.
    • 186 — The number of online videos the average Internet user watches in a month (USA).
    • 84% — Share of Internet users that view videos online (USA).
    • 14% — Share of Internet users that have uploaded videos online (USA).
    • 2+ billion — The number of videos watched per month on Facebook.
    • 20 million — Videos uploaded to Facebook per month.

    Images

    • 5 billion — Photos hosted by Flickr (September 2010).
    • 3000+ — Photos uploaded per minute to Flickr.
    • 130 million — At the above rate, the number of photos uploaded per month to Flickr.
    • 3+ billion — Photos uploaded per month to Facebook.
    • 36 billion — At the current rate, the number of photos uploaded to Facebook per year.

    An excellent thought from Stephen Altrogge:

    According to a recent infographic in Newsweek, in 2010 there are / will be:

    • 141 million active blogs
    • 2 billion daily Google searches
    • 1,052,803 books published
    • 247 billion daily emails sent
    • 4.5 billion text messages sent
    • 10 billion songs downloaded on iTunes

    Or consider this incredible claim from David Kirkpatrick: “We create as much information in two days now as we did from the dawn of man through 2003.”

    In the midst of this avalanche of information, I can’t help but think of Jesus’ words to Martha:

    “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary.   Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41-42)

    We can be troubled, and distracted, and overwhelmed by the sheer volume of data available to us.   But when you get down to it, only one thing really matters.   If all the blogs were gone, and Google went down, and teens suddenly stopped texting, it wouldn’t really matter that much.

    There’s only one Word that really matters: God’s Word.   We have it.   Let’s never let the mass of information available push us away from the only information of eternal significance.

    Do you consistently drop in on blogs or Internet news sites?   If you’re not doing so via the wonder of RSS, you’re wasting boatloads of time.   Don’t know what RSS is?   No problem…

    I highly recommend Google Reader and it just so happens that Abraham Piper has done an excellent job customizing a step-by-step RSS guide to Google’s service.

    Save lots of time in the long run.   Begin RSSing.   And while you’re at it, why not subscribe to this here blog via RSS or Email?