Author Ron Hutchcraft says a big reason some wives are desperate or discouraged is a husband who fails to meet her needs for affection, attention and affirmation. Men, here’s Hutchcraft’s three question test:
- First, am I loving my wife in the ways that make her feel loved?
- Second, am I giving her exclusive attention on a regular basis?
- Third, am I building her up by praising her?
If a man says “yes” to all three questions, his wife won’t be desperate. She’ll be a woman who knows she’s safe, secure, treasured and loved.