How Do You Accept Your Wife's Criticism?

Say you come home from a tough day at the office and are immediately greeted by your spouse who is not too happy with you.   She may start taking verbal swipes and your first reaction might be to get angry, loud and defensive.   Squelch that desire and, instead, sit down and hear her out.   It may take a little self-control, but just listen.

Oftentimes, the real reason for her outburst is an emotional build-up from a lot of different situations.   Do your best to let her know you understand what she is saying and then see if the two of you can arrive at a solution for her frustration.   You may find that handling things in this manner can actually make your wife feel closer to you.

Remember, in these situations it isn’t always necessary to be right.   A loving response is always the highest priority.

About Jason Hardin

Jason lives in southern Indiana with his wife Shelly and their three daughters. He works with the Charlestown Road church of Christ. Jason has written three books and a variety of workbooks. He’s a fan of photography, baseball, mountains, wildlife, BBQ, banana pudding, and coffee. You can contact him here or connect with him on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram.

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  1. Hmm….exactly what I needed to hear. I already know this but dont really live by it. It´s not easy, but it´s the only way.